Anita S. Debarlaben-Smith age 34, went home to be with the Lord on February 23, 2019. Anita affectionately known as “Tay” is survived by her husband Ryan Smith; Loving daughter of Teresa Debarlaben and David Mockabee; Cherished mother of Giovonte Debarlaben, Kelvaughn Debarlaben, Ryon Debarlaben, Joshua Debarlaben and Logan Debarlaben; Loving sister of Ishia Debarlaben.
Anita S. Debarlaben-Smith age 34, went home to be with the Lord on February 23, 2019.
Anita affectionately known as “Tay” is survived by her husband Ryan Smith; Loving daughter of Teresa Debarlaben and David Mockabee; Cherished mother of Giovonte Debarlaben, Kelvaughn Debarlaben, Ryon Debarlaben, Joshua Debarlaben and Logan Debarlaben; Loving sister of Ishia Debarlaben.
R.B.
left a message on May 7, 2019:
While words fail to capture the pain of losing a loved one, we look forward to the time when words will fail to capture the joy of having our heavenly Father return your dear one to you. (Acts 24:15)
Sadiqah Jami
left a message on March 5, 2019:
Teresa so sorry for the loss of your daughter. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. I never got to meet her but I know you as a child. She must have been a beautiful woman just like you. I see we share the same birthday. God bless you. May God always comfort you at the time of need.
Diane
left a message on March 4, 2019:
You have my sincere condolences to you and your family may God bless and always stay
Chinal Collins
left a message on March 2, 2019:
If you seen Tae you seen me. We did everything together. We would go months sometimes even a year without speaking, but soon as we talked it was like we spoke daily. My BEST FRIEND. Your mother loved me like a was a child of her own and vice versa. This is not sitting right with me and it’s so hard to believe. I remember every weekend every off day from school we stayed together. This is a huge pill to swallow and I just can’t believe it. I love you sooooo much Anita Shante Debarlaben. Your smile to that crazy little laugh I’ll forever keep you in my memory. Love you Tae❤️❤️
B M Riley
left a message on March 2, 2019:
Please accept my expression of sympathy during this time of sorrow. When we lose a loved one in death, the pain, the grief, and the feelings of helplessness can seem unbearable. At such times we can go God’s Word for comfort. (2 Corinthians 1:3, 4.). May his word strengthen and encourage you as you face the days ahead.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Cameron Treadwell
left a message on March 1, 2019:
I remember the laughs and smile. You will truly be missed BigCuzTay
Cameron Treadwell
left a message on March 1, 2019:
I remember times on Durant the smiles and laughter you will truly be missed BigCuz LuvUForever
anita Glenn
left a message on March 1, 2019:
To the family of Anita I want ya'll to know I am truly sorry for your loss and that you are are in my prayers for strength and healing as the days come and go as you grieve the loss of Anita, Wife, Mother and Daughter. Teresa I want you to know that this pain of losing your child is felt by me, also as being one of your close friends I pray for God to comfort you in his loving arms giving you strength, understanding and healing when it's just the two of you having those God and Daughter talks. I love you lady and I'm just a phone call away.
Kim Miller
left a message on March 1, 2019:
Teresa - we are so heartsick for you. May your happy memories offer you comfort and peace. You are in our thoughts, Kim and Chris Miller.
VC
left a message on March 1, 2019:
My condolences to the Debarlaben & Smith family. Prayers of comfort and strength for you loss. Tay you are loved and will be missed. Smile bright in heaven just as you did on earth. Luv u girl!
James Smith
left a message on March 1, 2019:
I still can't believe you are gone. You will be missed. You will always be remembered for being that silly, funny, kindhearted person. Love you always
James Smith
left a message on March 1, 2019:
I still find it hard to believe you're not here anymore. You will be missed. I'm going to always remember you being a fun, silly, and kind hearted person. Love you always cuzzo.
Teresa Debarlaben
left a message on March 1, 2019:
I thank God for giving me 34 years with you. I am thankful for more good times than bad. The kids and I will miss you but we will always keep you in our hearts and minds. So baby girl until we are together again... Mommy loves you!
Joyce Brooks
left a message on March 1, 2019:
I mourn the loss of one so young. So sorry for the death of your beloved Tay. I know your hearts are very heavy and the pain of losing Tay seems unbearable but please know Almighty God is with you during this time of great sorrow. He understands your pain for He too lost a loved one in death, his beloved son, Jesus Christ. Acts 13:30 tells us, "God raised him (Jesus) up from the dead." That marvelous hope of the resurrection is available to us as well. For we are promised at Isaiah 26:19, "YOUR DEAD WILL LIVE. Awake and shout joyfully, You Residents in the dust!.." Until then, may this promise give you hope, calm your aching hearts and bring you peace.
Waltrice Walker (nikki)
left a message on March 1, 2019:
You always held a special place in my heart Tae and always will. I know your beautiful smile will provide the sunshine on these cloudy days. My condolences to the family may GOD send you understanding and comfort heaven has gained a beautiful angel!
Barbara Bolling
left a message on March 1, 2019:
The Bolling Family We are sorry for your loss.Tay was hilarious , she will live in our memories forever.
Cindy DiLauro
left a message on February 28, 2019:
Teresa our hearts are heavy for you and your family. There are no words to express the sorrow. So sorry you are going through this. Keeping you all in my prayers.
Sarah & Chad Hansen
left a message on February 28, 2019:
Our hearts are with you always. We love you so much Teresa and pray Gods strength sees you through this.
valerie vinson
left a message on February 28, 2019:
My deepest condolences to the family for their loss. Your family is in my prayers daily during this difficult time know that it is during this time That HE hears your cries cares for you and holding you and yours in his ARMS. Peace and continued support your forever sister in Christ Sis Teresa Valerie Vinson Family.
Ms. Virley Cloyd
left a message on February 28, 2019:
My loving god granddaughter even though I didn’t see much of you my heart still aches to know that you have received your wings, you were such a vibrant and beautiful young lady never afraid to live life to the fullest and take chances that no one else would ever dream of taking . Tay you are truly going to be missed by everyone that had the pleasure of knowing you in some kind of way. And to your mom and sister, you’re children and your husband along with the rest of your family you have my deepest condolences and prayers love you all,Nanna.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Constance (Cece) Turner
left a message on February 27, 2019:
My Deepest Condolences and Prayers. Tae I will always remember and keep a place for you in my heart. Love You My Other Family
Shay Carter
left a message on February 27, 2019:
Aww My Tay baby rest easy beautiful we love you very much and praying for your family may the lord wrap your family in his arms and keep them there.
Tameika Lee
left a message on February 27, 2019:
I'm still in disbelief that I lost a good childhood friend. No one prepares you for these things, and when I say I am crushed, that's an understatement. I send all my love and condolences to her children, they are the ones who will need it most. I send my prayers to her mom, my second mom, her sister and her husband. My prayers are with you all through this trying time. I hope that you all find peace within your hearts and get through this storm. Rest in Peace Tay, you will never be forgotten. Love twin (Tameika Lee)
Calhoun Funeral Home & Cremation Service
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R.B.
left a message on May 7, 2019:
While words fail to capture the pain of losing a loved one, we look forward to the time when words will fail to capture the joy of having our heavenly Father return your dear one to you. (Acts 24:15)
Sadiqah Jami
left a message on March 5, 2019:
Teresa so sorry for the loss of your daughter. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. I never got to meet her but I know you as a child. She must have been a beautiful woman just like you. I see we share the same birthday. God bless you. May God always comfort you at the time of need.
Diane
left a message on March 4, 2019:
You have my sincere condolences to you and your family may God bless and always stay
Chinal Collins
left a message on March 2, 2019:
If you seen Tae you seen me. We did everything together. We would go months sometimes even a year without speaking, but soon as we talked it was like we spoke daily. My BEST FRIEND. Your mother loved me like a was a child of her own and vice versa. This is not sitting right with me and it’s so hard to believe. I remember every weekend every off day from school we stayed together. This is a huge pill to swallow and I just can’t believe it. I love you sooooo much Anita Shante Debarlaben. Your smile to that crazy little laugh I’ll forever keep you in my memory. Love you Tae❤️❤️
B M Riley
left a message on March 2, 2019:
Please accept my expression of sympathy during this time of sorrow. When we lose a loved one in death, the pain, the grief, and the feelings of helplessness can seem unbearable. At such times we can go God’s Word for comfort. (2 Corinthians 1:3, 4.). May his word strengthen and encourage you as you face the days ahead.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Cameron Treadwell
left a message on March 1, 2019:
I remember the laughs and smile. You will truly be missed BigCuzTay
Cameron Treadwell
left a message on March 1, 2019:
I remember times on Durant the smiles and laughter you will truly be missed BigCuz LuvUForever
anita Glenn
left a message on March 1, 2019:
To the family of Anita I want ya'll to know I am truly sorry for your loss and that you are are in my prayers for strength and healing as the days come and go as you grieve the loss of Anita, Wife, Mother and Daughter. Teresa I want you to know that this pain of losing your child is felt by me, also as being one of your close friends I pray for God to comfort you in his loving arms giving you strength, understanding and healing when it's just the two of you having those God and Daughter talks. I love you lady and I'm just a phone call away.
Kim Miller
left a message on March 1, 2019:
Teresa - we are so heartsick for you. May your happy memories offer you comfort and peace. You are in our thoughts, Kim and Chris Miller.
VC
left a message on March 1, 2019:
My condolences to the Debarlaben & Smith family. Prayers of comfort and strength for you loss. Tay you are loved and will be missed. Smile bright in heaven just as you did on earth. Luv u girl!
James Smith
left a message on March 1, 2019:
I still can't believe you are gone. You will be missed. You will always be remembered for being that silly, funny, kindhearted person. Love you always
James Smith
left a message on March 1, 2019:
I still find it hard to believe you're not here anymore. You will be missed. I'm going to always remember you being a fun, silly, and kind hearted person. Love you always cuzzo.
Teresa Debarlaben
left a message on March 1, 2019:
I thank God for giving me 34 years with you. I am thankful for more good times than bad. The kids and I will miss you but we will always keep you in our hearts and minds. So baby girl until we are together again... Mommy loves you!
Joyce Brooks
left a message on March 1, 2019:
I mourn the loss of one so young. So sorry for the death of your beloved Tay. I know your hearts are very heavy and the pain of losing Tay seems unbearable but please know Almighty God is with you during this time of great sorrow. He understands your pain for He too lost a loved one in death, his beloved son, Jesus Christ. Acts 13:30 tells us, "God raised him (Jesus) up from the dead." That marvelous hope of the resurrection is available to us as well. For we are promised at Isaiah 26:19, "YOUR DEAD WILL LIVE. Awake and shout joyfully, You Residents in the dust!.." Until then, may this promise give you hope, calm your aching hearts and bring you peace.
Waltrice Walker (nikki)
left a message on March 1, 2019:
You always held a special place in my heart Tae and always will. I know your beautiful smile will provide the sunshine on these cloudy days. My condolences to the family may GOD send you understanding and comfort heaven has gained a beautiful angel!
Barbara Bolling
left a message on March 1, 2019:
The Bolling Family We are sorry for your loss.Tay was hilarious , she will live in our memories forever.
Cindy DiLauro
left a message on February 28, 2019:
Teresa our hearts are heavy for you and your family. There are no words to express the sorrow. So sorry you are going through this. Keeping you all in my prayers.
Sarah & Chad Hansen
left a message on February 28, 2019:
Our hearts are with you always. We love you so much Teresa and pray Gods strength sees you through this.
valerie vinson
left a message on February 28, 2019:
My deepest condolences to the family for their loss. Your family is in my prayers daily during this difficult time know that it is during this time That HE hears your cries cares for you and holding you and yours in his ARMS. Peace and continued support your forever sister in Christ Sis Teresa Valerie Vinson Family.
Ms. Virley Cloyd
left a message on February 28, 2019:
My loving god granddaughter even though I didn’t see much of you my heart still aches to know that you have received your wings, you were such a vibrant and beautiful young lady never afraid to live life to the fullest and take chances that no one else would ever dream of taking . Tay you are truly going to be missed by everyone that had the pleasure of knowing you in some kind of way. And to your mom and sister, you’re children and your husband along with the rest of your family you have my deepest condolences and prayers love you all,Nanna.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Constance (Cece) Turner
left a message on February 27, 2019:
My Deepest Condolences and Prayers. Tae I will always remember and keep a place for you in my heart. Love You My Other Family
Shay Carter
left a message on February 27, 2019:
Aww My Tay baby rest easy beautiful we love you very much and praying for your family may the lord wrap your family in his arms and keep them there.
Tameika Lee
left a message on February 27, 2019:
I'm still in disbelief that I lost a good childhood friend. No one prepares you for these things, and when I say I am crushed, that's an understatement. I send all my love and condolences to her children, they are the ones who will need it most. I send my prayers to her mom, my second mom, her sister and her husband. My prayers are with you all through this trying time. I hope that you all find peace within your hearts and get through this storm. Rest in Peace Tay, you will never be forgotten. Love twin (Tameika Lee)
Calhoun Funeral Home & Cremation Service
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