Marian Murph Elder always said “do not write my obituary. If they don’t know me when I’m alive, they don’t need to know me when I’m dead.” She leaves behind 3 children: William (Kathy), Dr. Leonard David Elder, PhD., Marian D (Capt D) Elder. 4 grandchildren, Terrance Elder, Jimmy Walker (Sonja), April Frazier, William ElderContinue Reading
Marian Murph Elder always said “do not write my obituary. If they don’t know me when I’m alive, they don’t need to know me when I’m dead.”
She leaves behind 3 children: William (Kathy), Dr. Leonard David Elder, PhD., Marian D (Capt D) Elder. 4 grandchildren, Terrance Elder, Jimmy Walker (Sonja), April Frazier, William Elder and a host of great and great-great grands, nieces and nephews, and a host of Spiritual Children and a lot that call her Mother Elder.
The family thanks you for kindness and support shown in many ways.
Her motto: “I won’t complain”
“Give me my flowers while I can enjoy them” was one of her sayings, she wishes instead of flowers to donate to the Cleveland Animal Protective League www.clevelandapl.org in her memory.
Her favorite scripture: Ecc 3:1-5 A Time for Everything
Gabriel Carr
left a message on February 19, 2026:
Family, I am holding you all close in my thoughts and prayers during this time of grieving. May the special memories you all made together help you through this time. I had the pleasure of being in the presence of Mrs. Elder for a short while when I was a kid living in Cleveland Heights. She was classy, kind, and loving. Take comfort in her having made it to her heavenly home!!
Cathy Bailey
left a message on February 18, 2026:
Sending my sincerest condolences to Bro. William and Sis. Kathy Elder during this time. Mother Elder was a FAITHFUL Praise Dance Concert attendee at Inner Healing Ministries. She and her crew made sure they had their second row spot every year! She was such a sweet spirit. Our hearts and prayers are with you all.
GARY fREEMAN
left a message on February 16, 2026:
Mother Elder will be greatly missed,she played a very important role in my life and will always have a special place in my heart,rest in peace.
Mavis Glass(Red)
left a message on February 16, 2026:
In memory of Marian Elder, Mavis Glass(Red) lit a candle
Tara Harrington
left a message on February 16, 2026:
Dear Family,
My deepest condolences to you all. Mrs. Elder always had a kind word, warm hug or some sort of treat. She loved the Lord and singing. Every time we talked or visited she always reminded me of her family, friends and hobbies she cherished. She will truly be missed. What an amazing woman God graced all that knew her with. Love from Tara Harrington and family
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Tara Harrington
left a message on February 16, 2026:
Dear Family,
My deepest condolences to you all. Mrs. Elder always had a kind word, warm hug or some sort of treat. She loved the Lord and singing. Every time we talked or visited she always reminded me of her family, friends and hobbies she cherished. She will truly be missed. What an amazing woman God graced all that knew her with.
Delores Penn and Family
left a message on February 14, 2026:
Please accept our deepest, heartfelt condolences on the loss of your mother.. She will truly be missed by everyone. The Penn Family
Linda Hudson
left a message on February 14, 2026:
i will miss Mother Elder so much, I will miss our occassional conversations, she was such a faithful and kind individual, Mother Elder always kept a positive attitude on life. Words cannot express, how much she will be missed!
Rest In Peace Mother Elder,
Linda Hudson Your Sister In Christ
Antoinette Grayson
left a message on February 14, 2026:
Dear Family, I loved spending quality time with Mother Elder evverytime I came home to Cleveland! She knew how much I loved her and our heart to heart talks. ❤️ No words can express how much she will be missed. My sincere heartfelt condolences. So sorry I will not be able to attend the service but my love, thoughts, and prayers will be with you all on the 19th and always....See you later MOTHER ELDER...Job well done....You fought a good fight and kept the faith....I love you!!!
Your Spiritual Daughter Always, Antoinette
Bonnie J West
left a message on February 14, 2026:
Mrs. Elder was a woman of wisdom, grace and faith. She loved her family and her church family. I will miss singing in the choir with her and the way she sang "I am a living testimony"!! She left this world on her own terms. It was a blessing to know her. She is what love looks like.
Ajani Oden
left a message on February 14, 2026:
Forever Love & Cherish You Ms Elder!! Thank for always supporting me in church growing up always encouraging me! Thank you for helping me ge to convention every year. Thank you for supporting my landscaping business in high school! Forever Cherish you always- Ajani Oden
Debra Huston-Coleman
left a message on February 14, 2026:
To the family
Our Deepest Sympathy on the Loss of your beautiful and loving Mother..🙏🏾🌹🙏🏾
Richard and Debra Coleman
William and Tina Ross
left a message on February 13, 2026:
In memory of Marian Elder, William and Tina Ross lit a candle
Calhoun Funeral Home & Cremation Service
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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Gabriel Carr
left a message on February 19, 2026:
Family, I am holding you all close in my thoughts and prayers during this time of grieving. May the special memories you all made together help you through this time. I had the pleasure of being in the presence of Mrs. Elder for a short while when I was a kid living in Cleveland Heights. She was classy, kind, and loving. Take comfort in her having made it to her heavenly home!!
Cathy Bailey
left a message on February 18, 2026:
Sending my sincerest condolences to Bro. William and Sis. Kathy Elder during this time. Mother Elder was a FAITHFUL Praise Dance Concert attendee at Inner Healing Ministries. She and her crew made sure they had their second row spot every year! She was such a sweet spirit. Our hearts and prayers are with you all.
GARY fREEMAN
left a message on February 16, 2026:
Mother Elder will be greatly missed,she played a very important role in my life and will always have a special place in my heart,rest in peace.
Mavis Glass(Red)
left a message on February 16, 2026:
In memory of Marian Elder, Mavis Glass(Red) lit a candle
Tara Harrington
left a message on February 16, 2026:
Dear Family,
My deepest condolences to you all. Mrs. Elder always had a kind word, warm hug or some sort of treat. She loved the Lord and singing. Every time we talked or visited she always reminded me of her family, friends and hobbies she cherished. She will truly be missed. What an amazing woman God graced all that knew her with. Love from Tara Harrington and family
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Tara Harrington
left a message on February 16, 2026:
Dear Family,
My deepest condolences to you all. Mrs. Elder always had a kind word, warm hug or some sort of treat. She loved the Lord and singing. Every time we talked or visited she always reminded me of her family, friends and hobbies she cherished. She will truly be missed. What an amazing woman God graced all that knew her with.
Delores Penn and Family
left a message on February 14, 2026:
Please accept our deepest, heartfelt condolences on the loss of your mother.. She will truly be missed by everyone. The Penn Family
Linda Hudson
left a message on February 14, 2026:
i will miss Mother Elder so much, I will miss our occassional conversations, she was such a faithful and kind individual, Mother Elder always kept a positive attitude on life. Words cannot express, how much she will be missed!
Rest In Peace Mother Elder,
Linda Hudson Your Sister In Christ
Antoinette Grayson
left a message on February 14, 2026:
Dear Family, I loved spending quality time with Mother Elder evverytime I came home to Cleveland! She knew how much I loved her and our heart to heart talks. ❤️ No words can express how much she will be missed. My sincere heartfelt condolences. So sorry I will not be able to attend the service but my love, thoughts, and prayers will be with you all on the 19th and always....See you later MOTHER ELDER...Job well done....You fought a good fight and kept the faith....I love you!!!
Your Spiritual Daughter Always, Antoinette
Bonnie J West
left a message on February 14, 2026:
Mrs. Elder was a woman of wisdom, grace and faith. She loved her family and her church family. I will miss singing in the choir with her and the way she sang "I am a living testimony"!! She left this world on her own terms. It was a blessing to know her. She is what love looks like.
Ajani Oden
left a message on February 14, 2026:
Forever Love & Cherish You Ms Elder!! Thank for always supporting me in church growing up always encouraging me! Thank you for helping me ge to convention every year. Thank you for supporting my landscaping business in high school! Forever Cherish you always- Ajani Oden
Debra Huston-Coleman
left a message on February 14, 2026:
To the family
Our Deepest Sympathy on the Loss of your beautiful and loving Mother..🙏🏾🌹🙏🏾
Richard and Debra Coleman
William and Tina Ross
left a message on February 13, 2026:
In memory of Marian Elder, William and Tina Ross lit a candle
Calhoun Funeral Home & Cremation Service
left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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